Loving people is not an absence of being hurt. Because most of the time the people you love, are the people that offend you the most. But that should not mean we should stop loving them.

Jesus also told us in the book of Luke 17: 1
 … It is impossible but that offences will come…”

People are being offended when the expectation from the other is not being met. And it is the same like loving somebody. But The Lord wants that in all these things our motive of love should not change. Because love is the only way where His power and His presence flow through us to be a blessing to the world. So we must keep on loving and guarding our hearts that we would not be bitter.

Guard your heart above all else, for out of it are the issues of life.” Proverbs 4:23

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